Universe always gives us what we need not what we want!
This reminds me of an incident in the Bible where Jesus tells a crippled to get up take his bed and walk. Whereas he (the crippled) man wanted him to or someone to take him near the pool so that when the Angel of the Lord comes and touches the water he jumps into it first and be healed. You see the crippled man was looking for a man to help but his deeper need was healing. Jesus healed him! Many times we also look for people around us to help us ignoring our deeper needs or desire. What is it that you're seeking? Help or healing?