Please take a hard look at this word and register it deep in your mind.
Why I ask you to do this is because some men tend to forget the meaning of this word when it comes to the sexual consent.
When it comes to rejections, men have hard time accepting it, especially if it is coming from a woman. If you fall in the same category, you seriously have issues to take care of.
If consent can be non-verbal, so can be dissent. She may not say it out loud and clear but she will give you soft, polite hints if she feels uncomfortable. Read her fucking body language. If you still aren't clear, just bloody ask her
She can be wet and still not in mood. DON'T force her. A woman has a body and mind of her own. Sometimes, the bodily reactions may not be in sync with the mind. Yes, we are complex. Deal with it like we deal with you when you leave us hanging without an orgasm.
And, if you think you can change her mind with your gentle rebukes making her finally give in, mind you, you are not asking for consent, you are demanding it. And, that's not how it works.
Also, please don't be selfish in bed. If you have had an orgasm, help your woman to reach there too. .
Please take a hard look and register it deep in your mind.
Remember to say this word loud and clear when you don't want to have sex with him or are not in mood for it.
Don't be afraid to be a bitch if refusing sex makes you so. It's 2018, and you don't need to oblige anyone. You need to allow yourselves to disappoint men's desires.
We can't blame men if we yield to their desires and regret it later. It is high time we teach ourselves and our daughters confidence and self esteem.
Also, remember No is a complete sentence. You don't owe anyone any explanation.
In the wake of #AzizAnsari
I'm blaming no one, but it's established that there is a huge communication gap between men and women when it comes sexual consent. Let us all act like responsible grown-ups as we should.
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