LATE NIGHT THOUGHTS ALERT💭❄️one thing that comes up the most from people when people talk about me is the fact that I’m too nice, and they say it’s weird. I can say the same, but it’s really not hard to be nice to people. sometimes I wonder if it’s a good or bad thing when people think I’m too nice. and sometimes it sucks because people really take advantage of people who are nice. those are the type that always seem to get hurt the most.
This year has only just began, but my goal is to make more friend than ever. Not just friends, but in a level of a real friendship. a friendship with effort, memories, and support. to be honest, it’s tough for me. wanting to be friends with people, I’ve come to realize not everyone will reach out and put that same effort as you do. BUT I know i am NOT alone in this struggle. i’ve heard people and their stories on why they lose a friendship, or someone is acting so poor in their friendship. my advice? If you want to be friends with someone, continue giving your time and effort and show that you want that friendship. with time, if they seem to not give the same - move on. there’s plenty of amazing people out there that will give you that kind of effort and time for you. that’s what I have learned to do, it’s tough...but I’ve been happier later on. I don’t know, maybe I just find friendship a huge value in my life. I love people, I’ve never understood to those who say they dislike people or “hate” people. But what do you think? I know there’s others who may feel different than I do, and that’s totally okay. To be honest, as time goes on in my life, I have felt nothing but grateful to be able to have the opportunity to make friends at anytime......so with that thanks for those who I’ve met along the 21.5 years that I’ve lived on this earth. thanks for being my friend guys 💃🏽✨ if we’re just friendly strangers, let’s change that to friendly friends. also if you’ve made it to the end of this post, thanks for listening ☃️#deeplatenightthoughts