"Any relationship that could be 'ruined' by having a conversation about feelings, standards, or expectations wasn’t really firm enough anyway, so there isn’t much to ruin." —yourbigsisnissi
You will never be enough for people. They will put in frames and angles and dialects and shapes that you never imagined existed. They will expect you to change and will tell you that they are only trying to make you better for your goals but honey, even if it works; it wasn’t your path. You didn’t plan any of it. So, if it is your goal, are you not supposed to be the boss? Stop them dictate you. Stop them plan it for you because it was only you from the start and it is only you who knows how the end should look like.
Be your boss. Make your own choices. Only you and nobody else gets to decide for you.
And for once
If we are truthful
We wouldn’t have to
To anyone else
Keep focus. Keep faith. Keep going. I’ll believe in you when you don’t believe in yourself. 🙏🏽✨🦋💙
Yes, it is hollow. All this noise that we shut ourselves into, it’s hollow. It is to pretend that everything is all right. That we have adjusted to ways and dialogues because it is easier, because it doesn’t demands a fight.
The answer is that all your anger and frustration is pure fear. Perhaps, to be wrong. To be not understood. But, tell me why is it important to explain?
Some of the realest shit I’ve ever read in my life.
The best thing you can have around you is, strong women. The best thing you can be is a strong woman.
Being strong doesn’t symbolises harsh, it means you are soft enough to face a hurdle and gradually and meaningfully cope with it.
It means that you make choice and hold up to them. It means you know what it is like to be wrong and what it is like to accept it. It means that your body and mind are in sink with your heart and that none of it is to say that you are perfect because you are not.
You are equally messed up but you put up a reasonable argument toward it to describe the course of events to yourself. That you allow yourself to answer questions and explore your options. That you know how important you are to yourself and that who else you want to invest that kind of power in.
That, my friend, is a strong woman.