Okay so I committed to answer one pm/dm question each week and here goes for the yay one that's come!! Happy mondaaaaay ❤ "How do you compete with how incredibly beautiful women are today and in the dating field they're younger and more daring whereas like you I'm a single mom with the unbelievable schedules. I have no time to fix up and not a lot of extra cash to shop, dont get a lot of interest from men younger or older because of liabilities? thanks!your feed is awesome :) starts my day right." it really is my privilege to get your attention sweets. i learn so much from each interaction so thank you. Thank you so much, I appreciate you 🎈
First off, I don't "compete", I'd never be qualified to parade alongside the barbie doll covergirl runway ready pretty girls we have everywhere you look today. I can't even put lip gloss without looking like I just downed several purefoods tender juicy hotdogs in one sitting (I'm the type who would, oh and that's Sabrett, Nathan's, or Papaya King for you). We all have unbelievable schedules even the single happy go lucky ones--everyone, busy.
As for shopping, you already know I do capsule wardrobeee of a homogenous spread of white tees, shorts, and trainers (zara whites if I'm being dressy with old jeans). it limits "fixing up" and trend costs. If you aren't like me just get something that pleases you knowing most brands are patterned from the same suggested season design, so what if you can't go Gucci, Dior, or what have you--just wear what pleases you bec it'll make you smile and feel good and if you do, there goes beautiful you already ❤
I bet no one has had the audacity to check you out and then tell you that they weren't interested because you have "liabilities" unless that's how you guys fly in the east coast, I'm from Manila but I'd say that's highly unlikely. What is though is that you might consider being a single parent something that's "unpleasant looking" or is a "problem"--but it isn't, it is your life--and your life, really, it doesn't define you.
your heart does and for a good heart there's always good men looking. we stereotype too much, men go beyond looks & they conquer liabilities with ♡