We've all experienced toxic relationships one way or another in our lives.
I know for me it has been a multitude of people that I never thought would treat me the way that they did nor could I believe that I allowed it.
People such as friends, co-workers, employers, romantic partners, and family have created some of the most painful moments in my life.
Some I chose to forgive and others I chose to sever the chord forever.
In these types of situations it can be difficult to determind who I forgave and those I needed to forget.
It is hard because it is an emotional decison just as much as it is logical. I think when it comes to family and romantic parnters you lose someone intimate. When it comes to co-workers and employers it can be messy.
It is optimal for us as humans to experience exponential growth. When we have people in our lives that hinder our growth we deeply desire there is a surplus of ways to appropriately handle the situation. Most people would believe that the correct answer is to cut someone off. However, that should be the last resort unless you have thoroughly communicated with this person and given them the chance to change.
I always say to myself
If the cons outweight the pros you know it is time to go.
So what are the steps to take?
1) Analyze your history with this individual and pin point where you began to become aware of this toxic behavior.
2) Ask yourself what that behavior triggers inside of you.
3) Find a way to heal that part in yourself.
4) Forgive yourself and forgive them.
5) Seek outside help for advice.
6) Confront the individual
7) Choose to let go or move on.
Each case is different. However, I have found that by using these steps I have successfully strengthened my bonds with others. If I choose to move on from them then I let go of all resent too.
There healthy and unhealthy ways to overcome toxic people in your life. I encourage you to give this a shot!
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Asi es, un mal día no define toda tu vida ni define el resto de los días que quedan por venir, cuando llegamos a este mundo lo hacemos llorando porque tenemos miedo de lo desconocido y enseguida queremos buscar el apoyo y los brazos de quien nos pueda brindar seguridad, eso lo hacemos por instinto de supervivencia y no es muy distinto a lo que seguiremos haciendo por el resto de nuestras vidas, la necesidad de compañía de sentirnos apoyados y respaldados, nos llena de vida y nos hace sentir vivos, en resumen solo queremos sentir AMOR. .
A veces no cualquier amor pero si lo tenemos provenga de donde provenga nos hará sentir seguros, y nos repetirá que todos los días son una nueva aventura que no nos podemos perder y que no debemos hacerlo si queremos perder el miedo y dejar de llorar, los que tenemos la dicha de sentir esa seguridad, somos capaces de levantarnos sin importar cuan duro fue nuestro día y aquellos que aún están inseguros solo deben revisar su corazón porque dentro de ellos se encuentra su propio amor que hará que su meta no se vea tan lejana y logrará que alcancen los sueños mas anhelados de su corazón 💕
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